Affirmation: Every Thing is Working Out For the Highest Good

"All is well in my world, every thing is working out for the highest good. Out of this situation only good can come. I am safe."  So happy to have found this on my Social Media feed.

 

I'm pretty sure almost everyone can relate to having one of those moments (or many moments) in life when it feels like things are spiraling or have spiraled out of control (not a life or death situation--just a "rough moments in life" situation). Without going into detail (because privacy still reigns), a few weeks ago we found ourselves in a mindset of worry--hoping for a favorable outcome to something negative that occurred. It was something fixable, but we were hoping for the simplest path to the solution--but the journey was anxious-filled.

I know there's a saying that worrying is useless and it only makes the person suffer twice, or whatever, but that saying is pointless when you're going through something. Because worrying becomes tangible--you can feel it, it pervades-- and with it comes stress and all that. As a self-described worry-wart, I find myself overthinking about problems and situations and -yes- probably suffering twice, as they say.  How can you stop your mind from worrying? 🤷 Me? I've stopped trying.  I just accept that I worry (a lot), pray through it, meditate--repeat affirmations and hope that we pass through or over the situation relatively unscathed.

Well, to make a long story short, and because I now feel like I can breathe about this particular occurrence, the situation was resolved and life goes on as expected--with forward movement and continued expected challenges. And of course, there will always be future things to worry about...sigh.

Because that's really what life is all about. The journey will never be completely smooth all the time--for anyone--no matter how perfect it all seems to anyone on the outside looking in. When something in life is hard, it's just going to be hard until it passes and then on to more challenges with hopefully much joy sprinkled in between and all throughout.  It really all does come down to how we cope with the downs and how we appreciate and soak in the ups. And hopefully, Universe willing, there are more ups than downs. And whenever we do face those dreaded downs, find an effective affirmation--a personal mantra, if you will--to help with getting through it. Breathe. Hold on to the ones that matter and pray (reflect, meditate) on the the best outcome.  

For all the wonderful amazing moments, I'm thankful. 🙇

  

Can't Converse, I'm Reading a Book

I've realized that reading and getting immersed in the characters and stories of an entertaining book is an acceptable reason to avoid unpleasant interactions (introvert or not). 😁LOL! So, go ahead, indulge in a good self-care book! Here are some contemporary romance selections I recommend if you're looking for ideas. Mature audiences only.

The Leftover Club by Ginger Voight: This story follows the dramatic journey of Veronica Lawless. It goes back & forth from her childhood years, to her middle-school years, to high school, to young adult, to all the way to her full grown adult life. Throughout it all, Dylan is a constant. I’m not sure if that’s necessarily a good thing or a bad thing, but as the story progresses the reader gets insights on what she’s thinking & feeling, & one can’t help but just hold on for the rough ride. There are moments that make you cringe & moments that you feel angry for Veronica. It was an emotional roller coaster & I enjoyed it very much. 

 

 

Goody Two Shoes by Janet Elizabeth Henderson: Super cute story about an American performer and a Scottish spunky community leader. Josh is tired of the single life and is ready to settle down and have a family.  But he doesn’t believe in romance so he gets his best friend/manager to set him up in an arranged marriage.  Josh ends up choosing Caroline to be “the one”.  He finds her amusing and attractive, wants to protect her & is looking forward to marrying her and starting their life.  But he doesn’t love her, love her.  I found myself giggling during this story.  There are some super fun characters I wish I could actually hang out with.  And as Filipinos often say, I felt “kilig” (tingles) in some moments. 

 

 

 

Gabe: Alvarez Security Agency by Maryann Jordan: I was moved several times during moments of this story.  Not sure if it’s hormones (LOL!) but I actually shed some tears. Gabe and Jennifer have a beautiful love story. Jennifer is one of those characters that garners inspiration and respect—kind, caring & giving. And Gabe, who’s made mistakes in his past but is amazing as well, falls super hard for her without even really knowing who she is. There are many lovable characters surrounding them as well as unscrupulous ones and danger along the way.  Be ready to get all emotional in all the right ways with this one. 

 

 

I honestly don't know if this quote is relatable, but I just love the advice to just read to kids.

Book & coffee.  Need.  LOL!

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